It was close to the time I expected my wife Hendrina to be home from visiting her mother when my phone started ringing and her name popped up on the screen. When I answered, she was distraught and crying. A car had run a stop sign at high speed and nearly hit her. Through tears, she told me that just moments earlier, she had a strong sense she needed to slow down as she approached the intersection. That small decision may have saved her from a devastating crash.
Slowing down may have saved Hendrina’s life. Slowing down in our daily lives may not feel as dramatic, but God often guides us through quiet leadings rather than loud commands.
“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it’” (Isaiah 30:21).
Writing Just for Mentors is a time when I slow down. I spend time studying, reflecting, and asking others for input as I seek the right words to share with you. I rely on the Holy Spirit to guide me (John 16:13), to speak through Scripture (2 Timothy 3:14–17), and to speak through the voices of godly people around me. I know many of you approach your letters to students in the same way!
When we slow down and quiet our minds, we give ourselves space to hear that still, small voice behind us.
“Be still, and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).
In a world that values speed and productivity, slowing down can feel countercultural. Yet Scripture reminds us that stillness is not weakness—it’s strength (Exodus 14:14). When we pause, breathe, and reflect, we create room to listen for God’s voice and to respond with clarity and peace.
Whether you’re writing to a student, speaking with a friend, making a decision, or simply going about your day, take time to invite the Holy Spirit to guide you. Ask for wisdom and be attentive to the gentle thoughts and promptings that arise.
“This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength” (Isaiah 30:15).
To us, Hendrina’s experience is a powerful reminder of how the Holy Spirit often speaks in gentle, quiet ways. Her decision to slow down wasn’t just caution—it was divine protection.
May you find peace and clarity as you slow down and listen for the Holy Spirit’s gentle prompting—whether you’re writing words of encouragement, making a decision, or simply moving through your day.
If you’re feeling led to share hope and encouragement with someone who needs it most, consider becoming a Crossroads mentor. Your words can bring light, peace, and the love of Christ to men and women walking through some of the darkest seasons of their lives.