As we live our lives, each of us has a story. I recently accompanied a close friend to a chemotherapy appointment. As we stepped into the clinic, I observed several people coming in for treatment, overheard conversations, and watched the activity around me. We were in a large room with many small cubicles, each barely large enough to hold a patient’s chair and a guest. The treatment took most of the day, and I began to wonder about their stories—the stories of their lives.
These stories likely included experiences such as what it meant to be a new parent or grandparent. Perhaps one person could share how they were hired to sweep floors at a company and eventually rose to become a supervisor. I imagine there were some who had a profound moment that changed their outlook on life or deepened their faith in ways they never expected.
“Immediately, something like scales fell from Saul’s eyes, and he could see again. He got up and was baptized.” (Acts 9:18)
I love hearing stories, and with each one, I seem to learn something new, gain encouragement, or find myself challenged to see things from a new perspective. A good story has the power to foster connection, spark imagination, and bring clarity to the experiences that shape us.
However, not everyone is comfortable sharing details of their lives. They may not feel it’s relevant, appropriate, or valuable to the conversation. There may also be embarrassment or a sense of vulnerability tied to doing so. Yet when people share their struggles and lessons learned, their stories become even more powerful, showing the ways we all grow and change over time.
“For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” (Philippians 2:13)
As you reflect on your own journey, consider sharing a part of your personal story with others. The details don’t need to be perfect or rehearsed. For example, here’s a reflection I wrote while thinking about identity and personal growth:
I never asked myself the question, “Who do you believe you are?” until I was over 30, after making some difficult and painful decisions. Looking back, I wonder how my life might have unfolded had I seriously asked myself that question at 18. Could I have done this, or would I have done that? What I’ve come to realize is that questions like this often lead to regret. But I believe I asked myself this question at the right time, in the right season, as the first step toward personal growth. It’s clear to me now that it’s never too late to ask such questions, and now is a good time to reflect on who we believe we are.
Each person in that treatment room had a life story to tell. All of us are molded and shaped (Isaiah 64:8) as we navigate life, giving us a unique story to share. How are you using yours?
Use Your Story as a Ministry
Your story has the power to bring hope, encouragement, and transformation to others—especially those who feel forgotten. Through Crossroads Prison Ministries, you can share your journey with someone who is incarcerated, offering them guidance, support, and the love of Christ through letter writing and mentorship.
Join us in this life-changing ministry. Become a mentor with Crossroads and use your story to make a difference. Learn more and sign up today at cpministries.org/mentor.