Life is filled with seasons. Before stepping into my current role, I was mentored by many people, forming a network of relationships through churches, ministries, volunteer groups, and other communities. As I moved into a new chapter of life, I was pulled in new directions, with responsibilities that connected me to a broader network of people across the country. Over time, some of my earlier relationships faded. I found myself grieving what once was, even as I felt excitement about what was ahead. I came to realize that one season of life had transitioned into another.
Eventually, this current season will shift, too. Solomon reminds us, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens . . .” (Ecclesiastes 3:1). My life has been full of changing seasons. Tears flowed when my children left home, but time brought joy and the laughter of grandchildren (Ecclesiastes 3:4). A difficult season once broke me down, but time has brought healing and new life (Ecclesiastes 3:7a). Each season has brought new perspectives and opportunities to learn.
“Praise be to the name of God for ever and ever;
wisdom and power are his.
He changes times and seasons . . .
He gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to the discerning” (Daniel 2:20–21).
When life is hard and painful, it’s difficult to see beyond what we’re enduring in the moment. We may feel confused by unexpected events, or we may look back and see a timeline marked by detours and heartbreak. Yet even these difficult seasons can lead to a time of restoration. We can find comfort in knowing that while we may not fully understand what God has done from beginning to end, we can hold onto the truth that He will make everything beautiful in its time (Ecclesiastes 3:11).
I’ve heard many powerful stories from people navigating difficult transitions. Some share about relationships that threaten their well-being and their desperate cries for help. Others express anxiety as they face major changes in life and an uncertain future. Some have endured deep pain from addiction, violence, or loss—yet through reflection and faith, they’ve discovered new life. These stories show the beauty of change. Each one reflects a season they are coming from, living through, or stepping into.
I want to encourage you to reflect on the seasons in your own life—whether they were difficult or joyful—and how they have shaped your perspective. Where have you seen growth or change? Have you walked through a season of illness or uncertainty (Psalm 23:4)? Have you had to wait on God’s timing when your patience was worn thin (Psalm 27:14)? Or maybe life feels peaceful right now, and you’re simply grateful for rest and stability.
“But I trust in you, LORD; I say, ‘You are my God.’
My times are in your hands . . .” (Psalm 31:14–15).
Looking back, I can see how God was preparing me for a new season of life and ministry.
If you’re in a season where you’re looking for a meaningful way to grow, give back, and walk alongside someone else—consider becoming a Crossroads mentor. Our students are navigating some of life’s hardest seasons, and they need encouragement, hope, and someone to remind them that they are not alone. You can be that person. Learn more and sign up at cpministries.org/mentor.